‘I Am Okay with Dying, I’m Not Okay with Being Forgotten’ – Man with Terminal Illness Seeks to Help Others
A Singaporean man recently took to Reddit to share his terminal diagnosis and his wish to spend his remaining months making a meaningful impact. Rather than simply donating to charities, he wants to help individuals directly, witnessing the effect of his generosity firsthand. His post quickly gained attention, sparking a heartfelt discussion on financial giving, legacy, and the importance of personal connections.
Faced with the reality of having only months left to live, the man is determined to use his remaining time to help those in financial need. While his friend suggested donating to charity, he prefers a more personal approach—helping individuals directly so he can see the difference his money makes. He acknowledges that he is not a millionaire but has enough to “let slowly drip” to those in need.
Beyond financial aid, he expressed a deeper concern: the fear of being forgotten.
“I am okay with dying, I’m not okay with being forgotten.”
His story struck a chord with many Singaporeans, who not only sympathized but also shared practical suggestions on how he could make a lasting impact.
"Firstly, very sorry to hear that life has taken an abrupt turn for you. Secondly, very grateful that you find it meaningful to alleviate the suffering of others in this trying period. I have two suggestions: Pass-It-On Singapore (for those in need of appliances and essentials) and GiveWell.org (to maximize the impact of donations globally)." – ridingthestellarwind
"Can put your funds in your or others' CPF accounts and nominate those you wish to bless. Government has some matching grants if qualified. Think of those who have touched your life before and are less well off now." – yoongf
Others urged caution, reminding him that not everyone would appreciate or use his kindness wisely.
"Sorry to hear about your situation, OP. Not trying to overstep, but I suggest giving it to your loved ones or trusted friends. There are bad people out there who might take advantage of your kindness." – SorrowHill04
Some commenters suggested he focus on making lasting memories with his loved ones instead.
"How about doing something that you’ve always wanted to do instead? Nobody else is in a worse condition than you are currently, and you should be having no regrets." – SayNoper
There were also alternative suggestions for making an impact in a more structured way.
"Consider sponsoring social initiatives. You could also reach out to your alma mater to support promising students who need financial help." – scarlethreads
Despite the tragic circumstances, the man’s determination to leave a positive impact on the world is inspiring. Whether he chooses to donate to individuals, charities, or institutions, the overwhelming response from the public shows that many people admire his generosity.
His final months will not just be about facing death but about finding purpose in how he spends his remaining time. And, if the outpouring of support from the community is anything to go by, he certainly won’t be forgotten.
